IDENTIFY THE ORIGIN OF YOUR STRESS:
Taking this simple quiz can help you pinpoint
what causes you the most stress. For each
section, think back over the past month and
check off any questions that apply to you. If
you check at least three questions, this is
an area to pay attention to. Read the
suggestions for changing your
behavior. Knowing what causes your stress is
the first step to finding strategies that
remedy the situation.
WORK CHANGES:
_____Have you had significant changes in your
type of work?
_____Has your role or responsibility shifted?
_____Have you changed supervisors, or are you
working on a new project?
_____Have you experienced a big change in
your work location or condition?
_____Have new technologies or organizational
structures been introduced into your work
life?
SUGGESTIONS:
Expect change to be stressful. Slowing down
your regular routines can help you adjust to
the demands of new circumstances. Increase
your self-care practices slowly, adding one
new practice a week. For instance, add two
half-hour periods of reading before bed the
first week, and
then work up to four periods the next week.
Practice other forms of relaxation, such as
yoga or meditation.
For more resources on reducing stress, visit
the Benson-Henry Institute for Mind Body
Medicine at www.mbmi.org.
WORK PRESSURES:
_____Do you lack adequate resources and time
to do your job well?
_____Are your roles and responsibilities
confusing or unclear?
_____Are you pressured by too many demands
from others without adequate recognition?
_____Is your workplace unable to tap into your
creativity and personal input?
_____Do you have very little say in
decision-making?
SUGGESTIONS:
Listen to your body's signals by noticing
where physical pressure builds up in your
body. Take a short walk or change your
environment when you notice this pressure
building. Vent your frustrations out-loud and
engage in more physical exercise. Click
here for a quick audio relaxation
exercise.
TIME MANAGEMENT:
_____Do you find it difficult to complete
things?
_____Do you allow people to drop tasks in
your lap? Do you help others so that you
don't get your own work done?
_____Do you do more than you have to on
tasks, focusing on perfection instead of
excellence?
_____Do you miss appointments or forget
important things?
_____Do you keep commitments to others, but
break them with yourself?
SUGGESTIONS:
Limit interruptions and distractions by
creating time blocks for certain tasks such
as making phone calls or answering email.
Make a list of your work priorities and decide
which ones are the most important. Organize
your day so you work on top priorities when
you have the most energy and focus. Evaluate
whether or not your current time management
system is working for you. Visit this site for a more comprehensive
overview of time management practices and
systems.
RECEIVING ADEQUATE
SUPPORT:
_____Do you shy away from seeking the
appropriate knowledge, counsel, financial or
emotional support you need from others?
_____Do you find it challenging to talk about
difficult situations with someone you trust?
_____Do you keep quiet when uncomfortable
feelings are getting in the way of your work
with others?
_____Do you avoid speaking up when a task is too
taxing or you are too busy to complete it?
_____Are you hesitatant to seek professional
advice when your current support system isn't
working?
SUGGESTIONS:
Highly successful people create strong
personal networks and support circles. In
American culture, we often pursue
self-reliance at the expense of our personal
happiness. What are your barriers to asking
for help? Do you judge yourself for not being
able to do things on your own? Do you see
yourself as diminished if you ask for help?
Practice asking for help in safe places, and
remember that your requests won't always be
met. Be receptive and appreciative when
others do offer you support, even when it's
not exactly what you thought you needed.
I hope these questions and tips
will help
alleviate some of your current work stress!
Scroll down to be inspired by others who made
powerful changes to experience more ease and
success!